{"id":1060,"date":"2016-07-03T16:31:18","date_gmt":"2016-07-03T16:31:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/2016\/07\/03\/listening-and-receivingbased-on-2-kings-51-14\/"},"modified":"2020-02-15T19:19:27","modified_gmt":"2020-02-15T19:19:27","slug":"listening-and-receivingbased-on-2-kings-51-14","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/2016\/07\/03\/listening-and-receivingbased-on-2-kings-51-14\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cListening and Receiving\u201dbased on\u00a02 Kings 5:1-14 and Luke 10:1-11"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\n70<br \/>\npeople are sent out by Jesus, two by two. 70 is a symbolic number. In<br \/>\nExodus, Moses was assisted by 70 elders and in Genesis 10 there is a<br \/>\nlisting of all the nations of the world: they number 70. \u00a0While all<br \/>\nthe Synoptic Gospels (Matthew, Mark, and Luke) tell the story of<br \/>\nJesus sending out the 12 disciples 2 by 2, only Luke includes this<br \/>\nstory of sending out the 70 (which in some ancient manuscripts is 72,<br \/>\nbut we&rsquo;re going to just live with 70). \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nIt<br \/>\nis possible that this feels a bit repetitive, since Luke says in<br \/>\nchapter 9 that Jesus sent out the 12 disciples in a similar manner.<br \/>\nHowever, there is something really strange about this story, MUCH<br \/>\nmore interesting than the version a chapter before. That is, Jesus<br \/>\nsends out the 12 disciples in Galilee, the area that he spent most of<br \/>\nhis life and most of his ministry. \u00a0However, in chapter 10 he is in<br \/>\nSAMARIA, on his way to Jerusalem. \u00a0He sends out these 70 people to<br \/>\nEXACTLY the communities that most people at the time found most<br \/>\ndistasteful.<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nThis<br \/>\nis possibly the most Jesus thing I&rsquo;ve ever heard. \u00a0He sends out this<br \/>\nmassive group of people to places they&rsquo;d be radically uncomfortable,<br \/>\nAND refuses them any comforts: \u00a0they can have no purse or bag nor<br \/>\n(extra?) sandals. \u00a0They&rsquo;re on their own dependent on the hospitality<br \/>\nof people they&rsquo;ve never met and are likely terrified of. \u00a0They&rsquo;re<br \/>\ntold to go into people&rsquo;s homes, receive their hospitality, and eat<br \/>\ntheir food and drink their drinks.<br \/>\n When he sent out the 12 in Galilee he didn&rsquo;t bother specifically<br \/>\ntelling them to eat and drink what they are given. This only happens<br \/>\nwhen he sends them out in Samaria.<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nYou<br \/>\nremember, right, the Samaritans were so hated that people FREAKED OUT<br \/>\nat the idea that Jesus would receive a cup of water from one? The<br \/>\nSamaritans were so hated that the whole point of one of the most<br \/>\nwell-loved parables is the unexpected twist that a Samaritan could be<br \/>\nthe hero. (Ironically, and to keep things confusing, in the 2<sup>nd<\/sup><br \/>\nKings reading the word Samaria is used interchangeably with Israel.<br \/>\nThat&rsquo;s because it predates the first exile. That is, it was from a<br \/>\ntime when Samaria, Israel, and Judah were all united, well before<br \/>\nJesus.)<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nAt<br \/>\nthe time of Jesus, Samaritans practiced faith differently. The<br \/>\nfollowers of Jesus were Jews, I think very traditional Jews, part of<br \/>\na recommitment to orthodox practice sort of Jews. \u00a0The Samaritans<br \/>\nwere NOT CONSIDERED Jews (although that&rsquo;s yet another example of the<br \/>\nbias itself.) \u00a0To make this a bit clearer: good, deeply faithful Jews<br \/>\nat the time were very careful about what they ate, when they ate it,<br \/>\nand how it it had been prepared. That was part of how they expressed<br \/>\ntheir faithfulness to God. Being sent out into Samaria to be welcomed<br \/>\ninto people&rsquo;s homes as strangers and to EAT THEIR FOOD \u2026. wasn&rsquo;t<br \/>\nkosher. (giggle) \u00a0Literally. \ud83d\ude09 \u00a0But the story says Jesus sent out 70<br \/>\npeople into Samaria anyway, and specifically told them to eat and<br \/>\ndrink what they were given to eat and drink.\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nThis<br \/>\nrelates to the vision of Peter in Acts 10, where Peter has a vision<br \/>\nof God telling him to consume food otherwise thought unclean. \u00a0The<br \/>\nfact that the stories reflect each other isn&rsquo;t a surprise, as Luke<br \/>\nand Acts are really the same book by the author: Part 1 is Luke and<br \/>\nPart 2 is Acts (the fact that they are not one after another in our<br \/>\nBible is an atrocity.) \u00a0It does make me doubt the veracity of this<br \/>\nstory, but only the \u201cI don&rsquo;t think the facts add up to be terribly<br \/>\nlike to have ACTUALLY HAPPENED\u201d way. I think the story reflects a<br \/>\ndeep and abiding set of truths about God, about Jesus, about the<br \/>\nJesus movement, and about breaking open barriers that would otherwise<br \/>\ndivide people, and that&rsquo;s WAY more important than it actually having<br \/>\nhappened. \u00a0However, as I find this story to be completely and utterly<br \/>\ndelightful, I sort of hope I&rsquo;m wrong. \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nGoing<br \/>\nback into the story as it&rsquo;s own narrative again, Jesus<br \/>\ndoesn&rsquo;t just send them out to eat and drink. \u00a0He sends them out to<br \/>\nheal<br \/>\nand to give a message, \u201cThe<br \/>\nkingdom of God has come near to you.\u201d<br \/>\n That message is the one that Jesus shares over and over again.<br \/>\nReally, the combination of healing and that simple message are the<br \/>\nTHEMES of the Gospels, everything else is an expansion on those<br \/>\nideas. \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nThe<br \/>\nGospels are full of healing narratives, usually done by Jesus<br \/>\nhimself. \u00a0In our passage today though, we see the expansion of the<br \/>\nwork from Jesus to his followers, a reminder that the expansion<br \/>\nextends all the way out to us. \u00a0Healing, of course, takes on many<br \/>\nforms. \u00a0It can be physical, emotional, or spiritual, and at times the<br \/>\nmost appropriate healing is death itself. \u00a0Our work as followers of<br \/>\nChrist is to participate in the healing, in a holistic way. \u00a0This is<br \/>\ngood, as not all of us are medical professionals, but all of us can<br \/>\nparticipate in healing ourselves, each other, and the world. \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nMy<br \/>\nfriend the Rev. Dr. Barbara Thorington Green suggests that the power<br \/>\nof Jesus to heal was located in his ability to really truly SEE and<br \/>\nHEAR people, and to LOVE THEM as they really are and show them how<br \/>\nloved they were. She suspects that much of what harms us would be<br \/>\nhealable if we knew that we were seen, heard, and loved as we are.<br \/>\nThe work of healing, then, is also the work of loving \u2013 work we are<br \/>\nall called to do whether it is easy or hard for us.<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nTo<br \/>\nsee, to hear, and to share love with a person is also known as the<br \/>\nwork of LISTENING. \u00a0Listening is a profoundly healing act. \u00a0This<br \/>\nisn&rsquo;t just something that Jesus could do. \u00a0It is passed on to us<br \/>\nalong with the rest of the work of the Body of Christ. \u00a0If you&rsquo;ve<br \/>\nbeen playing along with my sermons over the past year or two, you may<br \/>\nalready know that I&rsquo;m excited about Nonviolent Communication as a<br \/>\nmeans of grace.\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nNonviolent<br \/>\ncommunications is a system of both listening and speaking meant to<br \/>\nbring healing and wholeness into the world. \u00a0It<br \/>\nis an act of love with power.<br \/>\n It happens in 4 parts, whether it is an act of listening or of<br \/>\nspeaking. \u00a0When it is an act of listening, a person practicing<br \/>\nNonviolent communication: listens for observations of what happened<br \/>\n(which may involve asking some questions), then listens for feelings<br \/>\nabout what happened (this may also involve some questions, or even<br \/>\nmaking some guesses), then listens to what the person&rsquo;s deep need is<br \/>\nthat connected the experience itself to the feeling that emerged<br \/>\n(yes, yes, this too might involve questions or guesses), and finally<br \/>\nseeks to understand what the person would want in order to make life<br \/>\nmore wonderful after being heard about the experience, the feeling(s)<br \/>\nand the need(s). \u00a0This last bit is listening for a request. Often the<br \/>\nrequest is really just to be heard!<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nI<br \/>\nwonder if the work of healing that the disciples and the 70 were sent<br \/>\nout to do had to do with deep listening and thereby sharing the<br \/>\nwonder of love itself. \u00a0I&rsquo;ve seen that work system, rather well and<br \/>\nquite frequently.<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nIn<br \/>\nNonviolent Communication Theory, there is a concept of universal<br \/>\nhuman needs. \u00a0One of the lists of these needs includes 90 of them,<br \/>\nunder the categories: connection, honesty, play, peace, physical<br \/>\nwell-being, meaning, and autonomy. \u00a0All of us have all the needs, all<br \/>\nthe time, and this theory suggests that what we say and do is always<br \/>\nrelated to getting our needs met. \u00a0Some of the ways we seek to get<br \/>\nour needs met are more effective than others, and some cause less<br \/>\nharm than others. Knowing our needs, and making direct requests tends<br \/>\nto help us get the needs met, and do it without impeding anyone<br \/>\nelse&rsquo;s capacity to met their needs! \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n(It<br \/>\nmay also be helpful to note that not all needs are equally important<br \/>\nto everyone. \u00a0For example, I have noticed that a lot of what I do is<br \/>\nabout meeting my needs to contribute to the world, \u00a0experience<br \/>\nefficacy, and keep things in balance. \u00a0Everyone else probably has a<br \/>\ndifferent subset of needs that they tend toward most strongly.)<br \/>\nAlso, FYI, we are offering another class on Nonviolent communication<br \/>\nthis fall! \u00a0Stay on the lookout for more information. \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nWe<br \/>\ncan see listening like this (and nonviolent communication) in the<br \/>\nHebrew Bible text, if we read into it a little bit. \u00a0The Israelite<br \/>\nslave girl observes<br \/>\nthat Naaman has leprosy. \u00a0She seems to feel<br \/>\nsad about that, and finds in herself a need<br \/>\nto contribute to his well-being. \u00a0So she suggests (this is an<br \/>\nindirect form of a request)<br \/>\nthat he might find healing through Elisha. \u00a0She seems to be<br \/>\nsuggesting that her life would be more wonderful if his was as well!<br \/>\nAnd she is heard!<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nI<br \/>\nthink the most interesting example of nonviolent communication comes<br \/>\nwhen Naaman gets a response from Elisha to \u201c&#8217;Go,<br \/>\nwash in the Jordan seven times, and your flesh shall be restored and<br \/>\nyou shall be clean.&rsquo;&ldquo; That&rsquo;s what happened (observation), and he<br \/>\nfeels ANGRY. \u00a0It turns out his expectations weren&rsquo;t getting met. \u00a0He<br \/>\nexpected to be healed in person, something he very well may have<br \/>\nassociated with being RESPECTED as an important person. \u00a0So, I&rsquo;m<br \/>\nthinking his need TO MATTER wasn&rsquo;t being met! \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nWhen<br \/>\nhis servants heard him, and heard him well, they were able to respond<br \/>\nto his need and help him reframe the possibilities. They helped him<br \/>\nmeet his need to matter in how they listened to him and responded to<br \/>\nhim, and that freed him up! \u00a0Once his need to matter was being met,<br \/>\nhe was able to give the washing in the River Jordan a try.<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nTruly,<br \/>\nin this story, people do a lot of good listening (and some good<br \/>\nspeaking) that ends up making a big difference:\n<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The<br \/>\nslave girl listens to the issues of her masters \u2013 and with a tender<br \/>\nheart.<\/li>\n<li>The<br \/>\nmistress listens to the advice of her slave.<\/li>\n<li>A<br \/>\nspouse listens to the advice of another spouse. \u00a0<\/li>\n<li>A<br \/>\nking listens to a general.<\/li>\n<li>A<br \/>\nking listens to a prophet (that almost NEVER happens in the Bible).<\/li>\n<li>And<br \/>\nthen the general listens to his servants, and to the prophet.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nAll<br \/>\nin all, this whole story is extraordinary, more so in the listening<br \/>\nthan in the healing that ensues. \u00a0Repeatedly<br \/>\npeople listen to others who would normally be considered below them,<br \/>\nand are blessed by the wisdom imparted.<br \/>\nIt is a case where listening to seemingly strange advice leads to an<br \/>\nunexpectedly good outcome. Namaan&rsquo;s listening is imperative to his<br \/>\nhealing. It allows others to bless him with their knowledge and<br \/>\nwisdom! He was able to receive the gifts they wanted to give him<br \/>\nbecause he listened to them. \u00a0They were able to give him the gifts he<br \/>\nneeded, because they listened as well. \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nBetween<br \/>\nthe gift of prayer itself, which is (among other things) the<br \/>\nexperience of being listened to with love by the Holy One&rsquo;s Own Self,<br \/>\nand the ways we are gifted by being able to be listened to by each<br \/>\nother, there are many opportunities for healing in our lives.<br \/>\nAssuming the veracity of the sending out of the 70, I still don&rsquo;t<br \/>\nreally know what they did. \u00a0But I rather love the idea that they<br \/>\nmight have been listening to people and thereby connecting them to<br \/>\nthe love of God! It could have been very healing for everyone<br \/>\ninvolved, especially when it happened across boundaries that weren&rsquo;t<br \/>\nsupposed to be crossed!<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\nDear<br \/>\nOnes, as you leave this place, I hope you will find ways to listen:<br \/>\nto each other, to strangers, to others you meet along the way, to the<br \/>\nHoly One, and to the deepest part of yourselves. \u00a0The gift of healing<br \/>\nis as close at hand as our ability to listen. \u00a0May we practice well.<br \/>\n Amen\n<\/p>\n<p>&ndash;<\/p>\n<p>Rev. Sara E. Baron<br \/>First United Methodist Church of Schenectady<br \/>603 State St. Schenectady, NY 12305<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/\">http:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/FUMCSchenectady\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/FUMCSchenectady<\/a>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>July 3, 2016<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>70 people are sent out by Jesus, two by two. 70 is a symbolic number. In Exodus, Moses was assisted &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/2016\/07\/03\/listening-and-receivingbased-on-2-kings-51-14\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">\u201cListening and Receiving\u201dbased on\u00a02 Kings 5:1-14 and Luke 10:1-11<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[33,960,75,682,955,956,962,957,228,940,144,961,56,959,831,958],"class_list":["post-1060","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sermons","tag-umc","tag-960","tag-fumcschenectady","tag-healing","tag-listening","tag-listeningandrecieving","tag-lovethischurch","tag-namaan","tag-nvc","tag-progressivechristianity","tag-revsaraebaron","tag-samaria","tag-schenectady","tag-terndermerciesofaslavegirl","tag-thinkingchurch","tag-whytheriverjordan"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1060","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1060"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1060\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1267,"href":"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1060\/revisions\/1267"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1060"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1060"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1060"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}