{"id":4514,"date":"2022-07-24T17:01:27","date_gmt":"2022-07-24T17:01:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/2022\/07\/24\/lament-prayer-dreaming\/"},"modified":"2022-07-24T17:01:27","modified_gmt":"2022-07-24T17:01:27","slug":"lament-prayer-dreaming","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/2022\/07\/24\/lament-prayer-dreaming\/","title":{"rendered":"Lament \/ Prayer \/ Dreaming"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cA<br \/>\nHistory Lesson\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In 1968<br \/>\nthe Methodist Church merged with the Evangelical United Brethren<br \/>\nChurch \u00a0to form The United Methodist Church. \u00a0Both of the predecessor<br \/>\ndenominations had social creeds, statements about what justice looked<br \/>\nlike. \u00a0This had started in 1908 when The Social Creed was passed in<br \/>\nthe Methodist Episcopal church calling for end to child labor, a fair<br \/>\nwage, and safety standards.<sup><a href=\"#sdfootnote1sym\"><sup>1<\/sup><\/a><\/sup><br \/>\nInitially, the statements of both churches were included in the<br \/>\nDiscipline, but the 1968 merging conference created a study committee<br \/>\nto create a unified statement, the first edition of the Social<br \/>\nPrincipals which state where we \u2013 as a church \u2013 stand on a wide<br \/>\nvariety of issues.<sup><a href=\"#sdfootnote2sym\"><sup>2<\/sup><\/a><\/sup><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>The<br \/>\ncommittee came to the 1972 General Conference with language that<br \/>\nsaid, &ldquo;homosexual persons no less than heterosexual persons are<br \/>\nindividuals of sacred worth.&rdquo; (It seems worth noting that the<br \/>\nStonewall Riot was in 1969, and may well have influenced the<br \/>\nintentional inclusion of this statement.)<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>However,<br \/>\nGeneral Conference fussed over the language, and Don Hand, a delegate<br \/>\nfrom Southwest Texas suggested that the period be turned into a comma<br \/>\nfollowed by the phrase &ldquo;though we do not condone the practice of<br \/>\nhomosexuality and consider this practice incompatible with Christian<br \/>\ndoctrine.&rdquo;<sup><a href=\"#sdfootnote3sym\"><sup>3<\/sup><\/a><\/sup><br \/>\n It passed.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Thus<br \/>\nbegan the 50 years of EXPLICIT homophobia in The United Methodist<br \/>\nChurch \u2013 50 years and counting. \u00a0The next General Conference \u2013<br \/>\n1976 \u2013 added funding bans to prevent church funds from being used<br \/>\nto \u201cpromote\u201d homosexuality. \u00a0The 1984 Discipline Adopted as the<br \/>\nstandard for ordained clergy, commitment to \u201cfidelity in marriage<br \/>\nand celibacy in singleness\u201d and \u201cself\u2010avowed practicing<br \/>\nhomosexuals are not to be accepted as candidates, ordained as<br \/>\nministers, or appointed to serve in The United Methodist Church.\u201d \u00a0<br \/>\nI remain particularly horrified that the church wrote in \u201cfidelity<br \/>\nin marriage and celibacy in singleness\u201d in order to attack LGB<br \/>\npeople, while claiming to do otherwise. \u00a0It took until 1996 to ban<br \/>\nclergy from presiding at \u201chomosexual unions\u201d and to tell churches<br \/>\nthey couldn&rsquo;t host them. \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>At the<br \/>\nsame time, occasionally, the UMC would make attempts to remind others<br \/>\nthat they should be in ministry \u201cfor and with all persons\u201d (1996)<br \/>\nand ask \u201cfamilies and churches not to reject or condemn their<br \/>\nlesbian and gay members and friends.\u201d \u00a0(2000.) \u00a0Isn&rsquo;t is great the<br \/>\nchurch asked people not to reject people while actively rejecting<br \/>\npeople? \u00a0In a great turn of irony the 2008 General Conference adopted<br \/>\na resolution to oppose homophobia and heterosexism. \u00a0(FACEPALM.) \u00a0You<br \/>\ncan&rsquo;t make this stuff up, can you?<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile,<br \/>\nover the course of these years, the AIDS crisis raged, suicides<br \/>\nstayed common, and LGBTQIA+ kids were kicked out of their homes and<br \/>\nonto the street. \u00a0Clergy were defrocked, and people called by God<br \/>\nkept their calls quiet (or lived in death spiral closets),<br \/>\nindividuals were rejected from their churches and families, and the<br \/>\nchurch&rsquo;s attention remained on an odd definition of sexual purity<br \/>\nINSTEAD of focusing on income inequality, poverty, colonialism,<br \/>\nsexism, racism, or climate change.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>In 2012<br \/>\n there was an attempt to acknowledge that people of faith disagree<br \/>\nabout homosexuality. \u00a0It failed. \u00a049% to 51%. \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile,<br \/>\nas you may well know, individuals, churches, communities, and<br \/>\nsometimes even Annual Conferences refused to obey unjust laws. \u00a0Many<br \/>\norganizations were founded by people who worked for inclusion, many<br \/>\nchurches became Reconciling (26 years ago here), clergy refused to<br \/>\nobey rules about homosexual unions and marriages, Bishops refused to<br \/>\ndeny people ordinations, people of God simply refused to obey unjust<br \/>\nlaws.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>And<br \/>\nthose who wanted control, those who wanted to have authority over<br \/>\nOTHER people&rsquo;s bodies, other people&rsquo;s love, other people&rsquo;s sex lives,<br \/>\nwere really, really upset that they could pass the laws but they<br \/>\ncouldn\u2019t crush the dissent. \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>In 2016<br \/>\nthis came to a boiling point at General Conference, and instead of<br \/>\npassing more laws from both sides of its mouth, the church created a<br \/>\nCommission to create a new way forward, and called for a Special<br \/>\nSession of General Conference in 2019 to receive and act on their<br \/>\nreport. \u00a0The Commission called for a moderate way forward, \u201cThe One<br \/>\nChurch Plan\u201d which let Annual Conferences, Bishops, clergy, and<br \/>\nchurches be led by their own consciousness and faith. \u00a0It aimed to<br \/>\nremove explicit homophobia from church policy but protect those who<br \/>\nwished to live it. \u00a0Meanwhile progressives called for a FULL end to<br \/>\nhomophobia with the \u201cSimple Plan\u201d and conservatives to a doubling<br \/>\ndown on it all with the \u201cTraditional Plan.\u201d \u00a0(While I&rsquo;m teaching<br \/>\nthis history lesson, I still can&rsquo;t \u00a0make myself explain all the<br \/>\nhorrors of the Traditional Plan.)<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>The<br \/>\n2019 General Conference passed the Traditional Plan.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>And, as<br \/>\nyou may know, there was general outrage and horror, and even the<br \/>\nmoderates in the USA got upset, and it became certain that The UMC<br \/>\nwas headed to divorce, with the only questions being which side would<br \/>\nexit, where the moderates would land, and how the money would be<br \/>\ndivided. \u00a0And then, and I&rsquo;m pretty sure you DO know this, there was a<br \/>\npandemic, and here we still stand. \u00a050 years of death and<br \/>\ndestruction. \u00a0And so, we lament. \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhere<br \/>\nare We Now?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The<br \/>\nUnited Methodist Church these days is stuck. \u00a0We&rsquo;ve realized that we<br \/>\ncannot stay together \u2013 not when some of the church says that the<br \/>\nmost important litmus test of faith is fidelity to homophobia at all<br \/>\ncosts &mdash; and the rest of us \u2026 I don&rsquo;t know, exist and don&rsquo;t agree<br \/>\nwith that immoral and theologically bankrupt assessment. \u00a0On May 1<sup>st<\/sup>,<br \/>\nafter years (decades?) of planning, the \u201cGlobal Methodist Church\u201d<br \/>\n(GMC) launched, inviting churches and clergy to leave The United<br \/>\nMethodist Church and join the GMC. \u00a0That church \u00a0is designed for<br \/>\nthose who think homophobia is faithfulness to God, although oddly<br \/>\nthat isn&rsquo;t on their website. \u00a0Slowly, but rather consistently, some<br \/>\nchurches are \u201cdisaffiliating\u201d from The United Methodist Church<br \/>\nand joining the GMC. \u00a0I wouldn&rsquo;t call it a mass exodus, perhaps<br \/>\nbecause leaving involves paying a fair share of debts owed, ministry<br \/>\nshares, and shared pension liability, and perhaps because their<br \/>\ntheology is shallow and deviates wildly from Jesus&rsquo;s. \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>There<br \/>\nwas a hope among many that the 2020 General Conference would pass<br \/>\nlegislation to allow a mostly graceful way forward, allowing<br \/>\nchurches, clergy, and even Bishops to leave The UMC. \u00a0However, the<br \/>\nnext General Conference is now scheduled for 2024, (2020 never<br \/>\nhappened) and things keep changing. \u00a0There is, unfortunately, little<br \/>\nhope that the denomination&rsquo;s official homophobic stances will change<br \/>\nin 2024, but there is SOME hope that our Annual Conference might<br \/>\nbecome a part of the church that refuses to acknowledge such laws.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>In the<br \/>\nmeantime, we HERE remain committed to the Reconciling statement:<\/p>\n<p>\n\u201cWe celebrate God\u2019s gift of diversity and value the<br \/>\nwholeness made possible in community equally shared and shepherded by<br \/>\nall. We welcome and affirm people of every gender identity, gender<br \/>\nexpression, and sexual orientation, who are also of every age, race,<br \/>\nethnicity, physical and mental ability, level of education, and<br \/>\nfamily structure, and of every economic, immigration, marital, and<br \/>\nsocial status, and so much more. We acknowledge that we live in a<br \/>\nworld of profound social, economic, and political inequities. As<br \/>\nfollowers of Jesus, we commit ourselves to the pursuit of justice and<br \/>\npledge to stand in solidarity with all who are marginalized and<br \/>\noppressed.\u201d\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p>We<br \/>\ncontinue to celebrate love and weddings for God&rsquo;s beloveds, with no<br \/>\nboundaries around gender or sexual orientation. \u00a0We continue to<br \/>\nwelcome into membership all of God&rsquo;s beloveds, and invite people to<br \/>\nbe in leadership in the church when they are willing and able. \u00a0We<br \/>\nwork in regular and consistent opposition to both the unjust laws of<br \/>\nthe church, the implementation of those laws, \u00a0the homophobia and<br \/>\ntransphobia of the country and the world, and the patriarchal, white<br \/>\nsupremacist narrative that only some people matter.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>And, we<br \/>\nknow that there are beloveds of God who cannot stomach being with us<br \/>\nbecause we are a part of The United Methodist Church, and\/or<br \/>\nChristianity, and the harm they&rsquo;ve experienced from one or both. \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>We are<br \/>\nin-between. \u00a0Clear on what we believe, but stuck without a good way<br \/>\nforward, aware of harm happening in the meantime, and yet still<br \/>\nhoping God can help us find a way forward. \u00a0That&rsquo;s what this time of<br \/>\nworship is about \u2013 praying for help in the midst of all that is<br \/>\n\u201cwhere we are now.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cA<br \/>\nGlimpse of God&rsquo;s Vision\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"tmblr-full\" data-orig-height=\"1024\" data-orig-width=\"768\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/64.media.tumblr.com\/9361d09c9c5cd7e6e23f98bc064acd03\/b46c4794df2ae1ca-06\/s540x810\/71964bcc9691e83d06645ad202b23a2cea4961de.jpg\" data-orig-height=\"1024\" data-orig-width=\"768\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>I know<br \/>\nthat no local church, no denomination, and no clergy person will ever<br \/>\nbe perfect. \u00a0We&rsquo;re human, we&rsquo;re finite, our perspectives are limited,<br \/>\nand our needs differ from those around us. \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>But<br \/>\nsometimes I let the perfect be the enemy of the good, and I forget to<br \/>\neven dream with God about where God wants the church to go (because<br \/>\nif we can&rsquo;t be perfect, why bother???) \u00a0I don&rsquo;t have the full vision<br \/>\nof God wants, no one person does, but I am going to share with you<br \/>\nwhat I can see, so that it becomes part of the conversation that can<br \/>\nbecome whole.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>I<br \/>\nbelieve that the GMC is predominated by wealthy, cis, straight, white<br \/>\nmen who are angry they couldn&rsquo;t control the movement of the Spirit.<br \/>\nThat helps me see what I want the church to look like: \u00a0economically<br \/>\ndiverse, and careful to center the voices of people living in<br \/>\npoverty; diverse in gender expression and careful to center the<br \/>\nvoices of those who are trans and non-binary; diverse in sexual<br \/>\nexpression and careful to center the voices of those who are<br \/>\nLGBTQIA+; racially and ethnically diverse and careful to center the<br \/>\nvoices of people of color and immigrants; with men, women, and<br \/>\nnon-binary people, with carefulness in centering the experiences and<br \/>\nneeds of women and non-binary people. \u00a0My language here is very<br \/>\ncareful, because I believe in community where all are welcome and<br \/>\nfully engaged members, but the hierarchies of the world enter the<br \/>\nchurch with us and unless we INTENTIONALLY invert the power dynamics<br \/>\nof the world, they&rsquo;ll replicate themselves in the church.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>And, of<br \/>\ncourse, I want to be a part of a community open the radical movement<br \/>\nof the Spirit. \u00a0The GMC uses scripture as a means of control, to<br \/>\nlimit people and prescribe their lives. \u00a0I hope to be part of a<br \/>\nchurch that sees scripture as an invitation to dialogue about what<br \/>\nmatters, what justice looks like, and how we might work together for<br \/>\nthe common good of all of God\u2019s beloveds. \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>When I<br \/>\nlisten to Jesus, I hear a lot of intentional inversions of the power<br \/>\ndynamics of the world, so I&rsquo;m pretty sure he&rsquo;s into that. \u00a0I also<br \/>\nhear an amazing amount of empowerment, and reminders that together,<br \/>\nthe people have enough to care for each other. \u00a0The world believes in<br \/>\nscarcity, but the church is called to believe in abundance.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>At this<br \/>\nmoment in time, I see several intersecting crises that I believe we<br \/>\nare all called to be attending to: \u00a0poverty and income inequality,<br \/>\nclimate change, militarism and escalation of violence, and an<br \/>\nepidemic of loneliness. \u00a0(In terms of analysis, the way we practice<br \/>\ncapitalism seems fundamental to all of these concerns.) \u00a0I hope that<br \/>\nwhen the church stops infighting about who is lovable in God&rsquo;s eyes<br \/>\n(eyeroll) and acknowledges the answer \u201ceveryone\u201d we might put our<br \/>\nenergy and attention to enacting that by working on the current<br \/>\ncrises. \u00a0(I know, all too well, than when we move from explicit<br \/>\nhomophobia to implicit homophobia and transphobia not nearly enough<br \/>\nwill change. \u00a0I know that, and I&rsquo;ll keep working on it. \u00a0But the care<br \/>\nof all people includes these pieces TOO.)<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>At its<br \/>\nworst, religion is the set of myths that empower the societal systems<br \/>\nthat create injustice, inequality, hierarchy, and despair. \u00a0I think<br \/>\none of the tells of this use of religion is when it is focused on<br \/>\ncontrol.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>BUT, at<br \/>\nit\u2019s best, religion lives out the love of God for all people,<br \/>\ndreams of a society of equity, justice, equality, and hope. \u00a0I think<br \/>\none of the tells of this use of religion is SHARED power.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>While I<br \/>\nhope we will speak, act, live out, and advocate for justice in all<br \/>\nthe crisis areas, I think we are best set up to change the world is<br \/>\nby being a place for humans to really connect,<br \/>\nto God and each other, and therefore changing the\n<\/p>\n<p>epidemic<br \/>\nof loneliness. \u00a0We are already a community. \u00a0We already have a<br \/>\nbuilding that can help people gather. \u00a0We are already practicing<br \/>\ncaring, and listening. \u00a0Many among us have already have lives<br \/>\ntransformed by being a part of this community, that is, by God and by<br \/>\neach other. \u00a0Seeking to use our gifts and resources to connect with<br \/>\nothers, and transform loneliness would ALSO increase our empathy and<br \/>\nlead us towards more valuable work in KNOWING that our well-being is<br \/>\ninterconnected. \u00a0I dream of a church where people are loved exactly<br \/>\nas they are, and listened to, and thus healed, and thus a source of<br \/>\nhealing and love for the world around them. \u00a0I think it is possible,<br \/>\ntoo!<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>To do<br \/>\nthis, though, would require a rather different way of \u201cbeing\u201d<br \/>\nthan we are now, and I am waiting to see how the Spirit moves in<br \/>\nothers, to learn how we will move forward together. \u00a0\n<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#sdfootnote1anc\">1<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.umc.org\/en\/content\/methodist-history-1908-social-creed-for-workers\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.umc.org\/en\/content\/methodist-history-1908-social-creed-for-workers<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#sdfootnote2anc\">2<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.umc.org\/en\/content\/ask-the-umc-why-do-we-have-social-principles-where-did-they-come-from\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.umc.org\/en\/content\/ask-the-umc-why-do-we-have-social-principles-where-did-they-come-from<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#sdfootnote3anc\">3<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Homosexuality_and_Methodism#United_Methodist_Church\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Homosexuality_and_Methodism#United_Methodist_Church<\/a>,<br \/>\n\tthe word \u201cdoctrine\u201d was changed to \u201cteaching\u201d by friendly<br \/>\n\tamendment before the amendment and statement passed.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Worship 7\/24\/2022<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cA History Lesson\u201d In 1968 the Methodist Church merged with the Evangelical United Brethren Church \u00a0to form The United Methodist &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/fumcschenectady.org\/blog\/2022\/07\/24\/lament-prayer-dreaming\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Lament \/ Prayer \/ 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